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I Wish You Love

At this time of so much anxiety and stress, I wish you love.

xo,

Ali

I just realized this morning that an elephant has been standing on my chest.

Although I feel I’ve been fairly calm about this whole thing – in large part because I do not watch or listen to the news. It has affected me.

Feeling the energy of people around me, hearing the stories and seeing the empty store shelves has made me anxious.

When I finally recognized that it was anxiety in a big ball in my chest it dissipated a little. I noticed that I was taking short breaths and my thoughts were spinning with worry. Having this awareness is so helpful.

Although it seems impossible not to talk about, I have been making an effort to not repeat the same stories over and over to everyone I talk to. When I get together with a friend (no touching), we agree to not talk about it, but we inevitably go back to it over and over until we notice and stop again. It is such a respite to take a break from talking about it!

Here’s what you can do to decrease the anxiety:

  • Notice your thoughts
  • Notice your breath and take deep breaths
  • Do something that will occupy your mind:
    • watch a movie or show
    • actively listen to music
    • put on music that you love and dance
    • meditate – love the Calm APP
  • get out in nature: a walk on the beach, forest, bike ride, etc.
  • read a book
  • read my blog! (there’s 9 years of posts!)
  • do a puzzle!
  • listen to a podcast
  • limit or stay off social media
  • cut down or cut out the news (people will tell you the important bits) check the government website instead
  • stop spreading the horror stories
  • choose to talk about other things
  • don’t feed into others anxiety, try to calm them down with compassion, not judgement

We are very lucky that the weather has been amazingly beautiful, make sure to take some time enjoy it!

The main thing you can do to protect yourself is WASH YOUR HANDS and DO NOT TOUCH YOUR FACE and keep a social distance, no hugs and kisses.   

Also remember to:

– Sneeze or cough into your elbow or tissue, not your hand (regardless of the reason for the cough/sneeze, even allergies, etc.)
– Wash your hands immediately after you blow your nose
– Put your sleeve over your hand when opening doors
– Use your elbow to push the elevator button
– Focus on eating healthy, drinking lots of water, getting enough sleep and exercising to boost your IMMUNITY
– Take immunity boosting vitamins
– Exercise is a great anxiety and stress reliever
– Listen to your body, rest if you need it
– Stay home if you’re sick

HERE’S A MEDIATION FOR YOU:

(from elizabeth gilbert)

Look at your current surroundings.

Name 5 things that you can see

4 things that you can hear 3 things that you can feel

2 things that you can smell

1 thing that you can taste

There.

Now you have landed in this moment, in this place.

And this moment, in this place,

is the only time and place where we ever have a chance to find peace.

by tallie nat

A Rub a Dub a Dub…

I was my hands A LOT.

After watching this video I realized I’ve been getting lazy and doing number 4 (see below).

Here is a funny video to remind us all to wash our hands thoroughly.

And don’t forget – don’t touch your mouth, eyes, ears.

I’m constantly seeing people with their hands all over their face!

PS. Hands get so dry with all that washing. Try lathering your hands with lots of cream right before bed, it helps a lot.

Let’s make this our goal this week!

 

Here’s how you do it:

Let’s Be Kids Again!

May we find joy in the simple pleasures like when we were little.

@lgndfrvr

continued from More Holiday Eating Strategies

The Ying and the Yang

For me, part of a good life is eating delicious food. The key to enjoying it is to feel good. That means eating with some moderation and balance.

I like to “pre-pay” for my indulgences (see Holiday Eating Strategies) and also Ying the Yang the day of and following a “feast” so there are as few repercussions as possible. Here is what I do:

PREPARE  The day of the event:

  • I always start the day with a big glass of water before I do anything else. It wakes me up and gives me energy. On this special day, I have 4 glasses of water before I eat and then another 4 glasses through-out the day.
  • I have my usual protein shake for breakfast and light lunch, like a big salad with chicken breast. I make sure to include a lean protein in each meal as this satiates the appetite, I don’t want to feel hungry.
  • I drink 1-2 glasses of water right before the event and if I’m hungry I have a light healthy snack before I go.

At the event:

  • I avoid or limit starchy food that will make me feel bloated and full: rice, potatoes, bread, pasta, crackers, etc. It really makes a difference to avoid too much of these foods.
  • I’m picky and choosy,  I try not to eat crap!  I savour the food I love and take my time.
  • I consider each thing I eat and ask myself: Is it worth it?  Is it crap?  How will I feel after I eat this?  Crap makes you feel like crap!
  • I eat one and enjoy it. Having more does not make it more enjoyable especially if you feel sick from over-eating afterwards. Of course, sometimes it’s worth having more though 😉
  • What to do if you find yourself parked in front of the chips eating the entire bowl even though you don’t like them:
    • Recognize what you are doing
    • Ask yourself why… am I bored? uncomfortable? eating unconsciously?
    • Pull yourself away and drink a tall glass of water
    • Repeat if you find yourself back at the bowl

After the event:

  • Before bed, I take a probiotic or a glass bubbly water with a little lime juice to help with digestion.
  • The next morning I’m usually still full from the night before, so I skip breakfast – the key here is to take a moment to notice how you feel.
  • I start the day with 4 glasses of water and then have another 4 through-out the day.
  • I eat extra healthy the next few days: salads, fruit, vegetables, lean protein (and everyday!).
  • It’s just as easy to lose a few pounds as it is to gain a few pounds. Do not starve yourself to do this! That is the absolute worst tactic. Just eat healthy, no crap, smaller portions, lots of water, cut the sugar, make sure to have lean protein at every meal.
  • I get moving: a long walk, the gym, a class.
  • It’s so easy to become addicted to the sugar, notice if this starts to happen and taper it down.

Happy Holidays everyone!

Wishing you a healthy and happy New Year!

…continued

Once I’ve decided what I want (see previous post), I start to think about situations where I’ll have the opportunity to stuff my face:

· Treats at the office
· Xmas parties
· Xmas Dinner
· Office Parties
· Open Houses
· Dinner Parties
· Family gatherings
· Treats around the house
· Gifts that are treats

Then I think about the food that will be available at these events and whether I’ll want to enjoy it.

Stop and consider: Is It Worth It?

I ask myself:

  • Is stuffing my face for the month of December worth the extra pounds at the end?
  • How will I feel January 1st with an extra X pounds on my frame?
  • Was it really that enjoyable?
  • Were those delectable treats delectable at all?
  • At the end of Christmas dinner, how do I want to feel?
  • Do I want to have to undo my button and zipper?
  • Do I want to feel bloated and sick?
  • Do I really need to eat more than one plate full of Xmas dinner?
  • Is it actually more enjoyable when I eat more?

Is It Crap?

  • What are the ingredients in that tasty morsel?
  • Is it actually tasty & delicious or am I eating it out of: boredom? something to do? unconsciousness? feeling uncomfortable at a party? obligation?
  • Is it made with artificial flavour and hydrogenated oil? Or is it real made with natural ingredients?
  • What are natural ingredients? If I can’t pronounce it or don’t know what it means then it’s crap. Pretty simple, huh!?
  • How do I know it’s crap if it’s on a platter and there is no package to read? I look it over, does it look like it’s made from natural ingredients or from a package? If it’s homemade chances, are it’s not crap. If it looks like it’s from a package, chances are it’s crap. The more I check the ingredients, in general, the more I have learned to tell the difference and taste the difference. You will be amazed at the difference once you get into it.
  • I consider how I will feel after I eat it. Crap makes me feel like crap.

Be picky!

Be choosy!

Don’t eat crap!

Trust me it’s not worth it.

Just eat food you love and enjoy.

Attitude:

This is a big one. Once you’ve decided on what you want, embrace it. What you think and say to yourself after that is everything. If you start to lament that you’re on a “diet”, that you can’t eat this or that, that you wish you could but you don’t want to gain weight, then you’re hooped, it’ll be difficult to stick to your plan.

Focus on the positive.

Focus on what you’re having instead of what you’re not having. With the right attitude you won’t miss a thing and enjoy what you have.

Continued HERE….